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	<title>:: VFAM.ORG :: &#187; family</title>
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		<title>What do you want your legacy to look like?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 12:16:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sunday through Wednesday of this week I was able to take a brief trip out to California for my great-grandmother's funeral. She was an amazing woman who lived a full 94 years! During my time there I was given the privilege to share at her memorial service. Preparing for that allowed me to reflect on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sunday through Wednesday of this week I was able to take a brief trip out to California for my great-grandmother's funeral. She was an amazing woman who lived a full 94 years! During my time there I was given the privilege to share at her memorial service. Preparing for that allowed me to reflect on the (direct and indirect) impact she on my life.</p>
<p>As I think about ways to raise my children, and guide them in faith as they grow older, I hope that I always remember the example that my great-grandma was to her family. She consistently modeled grace and wisdom every single day. She faithfully lifted her family up in prayer, and, without fail, generously gave to those in need. Her daughter (my grandma) and her granddaughter (my mom) were both heavily influenced by the faith she lived out every day. As I look at their lives, and think about how I want to be remembered in the future, I hope that my faith in Jesus is marked by as much love and authenticity as my great-grandma’s faith was. Quite simply, it can be summed up in one word: genuine. It wasn’t fake. It wasn’t something she did just to appear spiritual. Her faith was real simply because she loved and cherished her relationship with Jesus.</p>
<p>These past few days were definitely a time of celebration! I was glad to be a part of it and see family I don't get to see that often. But, it also was definitely a time of reflection -- and a time for me to take a step back and reflect on the legacy that my G.G. left during the 94 years she spent here on earth. Will mine look the same? Probably not... but I want my desire to be the same: to love and cherish Jesus to the fullest every single day I have on here on earth!</p>
<p><a href="http://bit.ly/vfamlegacy  " onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/bit.ly/vfamlegacy?referer=');">Thoughts?</a></p>
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		<title>I Got My Baby Back!</title>
		<link>http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/08/i-got-my-baby-back/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 13:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jen and Olivia got back in town yesterday afternoon from their 6-day trip to visit family in Denver. They had a great time! We'll post pictures and videos soon about both our adventures (their trip to Denver, and me and Soph's time at home) within the next few days. By the way, the above picture [...]]]></description>
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<p>Jen and Olivia got back in town yesterday afternoon from their 6-day trip to visit family in Denver. They had a great time! We'll post pictures and videos soon about both our adventures (their trip to Denver, and me and Soph's time at home) within the next few days.</p>
<p>By the way, the above picture was taken by <a href="http://www.frankgibson.com" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.frankgibson.com?referer=');">our favorite photographer</a> in ATL (he did our wedding 5+ years ago). We were at a friend's wedding and they happened to be shooting it. He pulled us aside and got a nice shot of us. <img src='http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Denver-bound!</title>
		<link>http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/08/denver-bound/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2010 14:39:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This afternoon Jen and Olivia are flying out to Denver to visit her Grandmother and Aunt (and family). These things tend to hit me slowly, but as I'm sitting here right now I'm realizing that I'm going to miss them a lot! They'll be gone for almost a week. So, for the next 6 days [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This afternoon Jen and Olivia are flying out to Denver to visit her Grandmother and Aunt (and family). These things tend to hit me slowly, but as I'm sitting here right now I'm realizing that I'm going to miss them a lot! They'll be gone for almost a week. So, for the next 6 days it's just me and Sophia. I try to keep myself busy, so I'm gathering a list of things for us to do (especially this weekend).  So far, here's the plan:</p>
<p>Tonight: We're heading to the <a href="http://atlanta.braves.mlb.com" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/atlanta.braves.mlb.com?referer=');">Braves</a> game. Should be fun!<br />
Thursday: No plans, she'll be with the grandparents and I'll probably go golfing (I know, selfish me-time).<br />
Friday: Playground at the outlet mall, then to the candy shop to get an Icee. Maybe a movie rental afterwards.<br />
Saturday: <a href="http://www.pdkairport.org/restoration.asp" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.pdkairport.org/restoration.asp?referer=');">DeKalb Peachtree Airport aviation park</a>, lunch somewhere inside the perimeter, <a href="http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/5528610/are_your_kids_bored_already_try_the.html?cat=8" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.associatedcontent.com/article/5528610/are_your_kids_bored_already_try_the.html?cat=8&amp;referer=');">Riverside Splash Park</a> in Roswell.<br />
Sunday: <a href="http://www.stonecreekchurch.org" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.stonecreekchurch.org?referer=');">Church</a>, nap (yes, this is on the schedule), small group, then dinner somewhere in Cumming.<br />
Monday: Sophia will be with Grandparents #2, so unsure what Monday night plans will look like just yet.<br />
Tuesday: We'll go to the airport to pick up the girls!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/2010-08-18_olivia.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-1052" title="2010-08-18_olivia" src="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/2010-08-18_olivia-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><br />
<em>I know that that she'll enjoy the trip with Mommy!</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/08/denver-bound/">Any other ideas or suggestions for me this weekend?</a></p>
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		<title>Sophia&#8217;s Memory Verses</title>
		<link>http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/08/sophias-memory-verses/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 11:49:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I'm a proud Daddy. My prayer is that these take root in her heart so she would be captivated by Jesus at a young age! Do you have a specific method for memorizing scripture? (for yourself or your kids)]]></description>
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<p>I'm a proud Daddy. My prayer is that these take root in her heart so she would be captivated by Jesus at a young age!</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/08/sophias-memory-verses/">Do you have a specific method for memorizing scripture? (for yourself or your kids)</a></strong></p>
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		<title>Channeling her inner Ludacris</title>
		<link>http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/07/channeling-her-inner-ludacris/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 13:18:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You're right. That is Sophia channeling her inner Ludacris.]]></description>
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<p>You're right. <a href="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/07/channeling-her-inner-ludacris/">That is Sophia channeling her inner Ludacris</a>.</p>
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		<title>And so it begins&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 02:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[With Olivia walking now (or at least at the beginning stages), our lives are about to change!]]></description>
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<p>With Olivia walking now (or at least at the beginning stages), our lives are about to change!</p>
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		<title>Thank you Justin for Bieberizing my girls</title>
		<link>http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/06/thank-you-justin-for-bieberizing-my-girls/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 12:28:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA["Baby" by Justin Bieber, as performed by the Valencia girls.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>"Baby" by Justin Bieber, as performed by the Valencia girls.</p>
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		<title>Eric&#8217;s Wedding in Ashburn, GA</title>
		<link>http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/06/erics-wedding-in-ashburn-ga/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 01:03:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last weekend we made the trek down to Cordele, GA (south of ATL) for Jen's brother's wedding. Eric is a couple years older and stationed in San Diego in the Navy. (Oh yes, we'll be visiting....!!) Becky's parents live in Cordele, so most of the family stayed in a hotel there while the ceremony and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last weekend we made the trek down to Cordele, GA (south of ATL) for Jen's brother's wedding. Eric is a couple years older and stationed in San Diego in the Navy. (Oh yes, we'll be visiting....!!) Becky's parents live in Cordele, so most of the family stayed in a hotel there while the ceremony and reception were held at <a href="http://quailslanding.com/" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/quailslanding.com/?referer=');">Quail's Landing</a> a little further south in Ashburn, GA. We had a good time celebrating their marriage and, as always, it was fun to see and visit with family.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/SDC10862.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-925" title="SDC10862" src="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/SDC10862-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><br />
<em>Jen, Eric, myself and Sophia about an hour before the "I Do's").</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/SDC108461.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-927" title="SDC10846" src="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/SDC108461-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><br />
<em>Jen's Grandmother, Jen, Becky, and Jen's Mom at the bridal luncheon the day before.</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/SDC10839.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-928" title="SDC10839" src="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/SDC10839-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><br />
<em>Aunt Pat and Uncle Nate with Olivia</em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/SDC10889.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-929" title="SDC10889" src="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/SDC10889-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><br />
<em>Tita Sol with Olivia and Sophia</em></p>
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		<title>Hey, Soul Sister</title>
		<link>http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/06/hey-soul-sister/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 13:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night Jen went to have dessert with a friend which meant Daddy Time for me with the girls. We decided to do a little dance-sesh cut to Train's "Hey, Soul Sister". Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night Jen went to have dessert with a friend which meant Daddy Time for me with the girls. We decided to do a little dance-sesh cut to Train's "Hey, Soul Sister". Enjoy!</p>
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		<title>Love &amp; War</title>
		<link>http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/06/love-war/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 13:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dustinuga</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This past Sunday our small group ("Couples with young kids") started our summer series off with a bang. From a recommendation, we decided to do John &#38; Staci Eldredge's study called Love &#38; War. Here is a snapshot directly from their website: John and Stasi's new book, Love and War: Finding the Marriage You've Dreamed [...]]]></description>
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<p>This past Sunday our small group ("Couples with young kids") started our summer series off with a bang. From a recommendation, we decided to do John &amp; Staci Eldredge's study called <a href="http://www.ransomedheart.com/loveandwar.aspx" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.ransomedheart.com/loveandwar.aspx?referer=');">Love &amp; War</a>. Here is a snapshot directly from their website:</p>
<blockquote><p>John and Stasi's new book, <em><strong>Love and War: Finding the Marriage You've Dreamed Of</strong></em> does for couples what <em>Captivating</em> did for women and <em>Wild at Heart</em>did for men. With refreshing openness that will grab readers from the first page, the Eldredges candidly discuss their own marriage and the insights they've gained from the challenges they have faced. Each talks independently to the reader about what they've learned , giving their guidance personal immediacy and a balance between the male and female perspectives that has been absent from all previous books on this topic.</p>
<p>John and Stasi begin <em><strong>Love &amp; War</strong></em> with an obvious but necessary acknowledgement: Marriage is fabulously hard. They believe we need to get past the shame and confusion surrounding the undertaking of marriage before we can truly deal with our day-to-day situations.</p>
<p><em><strong>Love &amp; War</strong></em>shows couples how to fight for their love and happiness, calling on both men and women to step into the great adventure God has waiting for them together. Walking alongside John and Stasi Eldredge, every couple can discover how their journey together is growing into a story of meaning much greater than anything they could do or be on their own.</p></blockquote>
<p>As a group we decided to modify our study somewhat in that we will just be watching the DVD as a group and going through the "Participant Guide" instead of the actual book. In the PG there is some weekly "pre-work" that everyone can complete prior to coming to group on Sunday afternoons.</p>
<p>Granted its only been one week/session, but if you're looking for an idea for a "couples" small group, I'll give my early recommendation on this one. We had to stop our discussion short yesterday! We talked about expectations vs. reality, fighting for our marriage, and our desires/dreams for our marriages. It was very engaging. I'm looking forward to our times this summer to see how God stirs things up a bit!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.valenciafamily.org/blog/2010/06/love-war/"><strong>Have you done this study? Or have you done another one that you would recommend?</strong></a></p>
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